Purpletigron

'Ought' is a demon, and one we all have to fight. It is shaped frequently by other people's expectations of us, and our own desire to please those people. In the end, you are the only person you have to live with for the rest of your life, so you are the one you should be happy with. From where I sit, you look like you are a very successful human being, and that's something to be proud of. {{{{{hugs}}}}}